13/12/25

While I was scrolling through my instgram reels something motivated me to start writing blogs based on the things I learn each day. I will try my best to do this everyday forgive me if I don't. I will be writing this as advices to my younger self. 
 
Everyone says if you want to be confident you should speak to yourself while looking at the mirror. I tried it. What I noticed was 1st the awareness of my own expressions words, tone, body language. 2nd i readjusted it in a way that aligned with my identity of self which is to talk with dignity and respect. Doing this for 5 min will make you confident. 


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Talking without pauses

 17/2/26 Problem: Talking without pauses Talking without pauses means to speak continously without taking a breath and not articulating your next sentence. Talking without pauses also means you blurt out everything in your mind without giving your mind the time to think.  The issue here is that the audience won't be able to understand what you are trying to convey. The words become scattered. You start to panic. It becomes especially difficult when you are trying to lead because if you do not yourself be able to convey what you want to be done in an understandable, calm, composed and articulate manner, the people who are hearing you won't give you the attention nor would they respect you enough in order to do that task.  What you say is what you are. A slip of the tongue can cost you your reputation, job and even your relationship.  There is nothing good about speaking fast or without pauses...  So what is the reason for speaking fast and without pauses?  I...
Read more

27/1/26

 Problem: Not being socially aware of societal cases issues.  Today as I was writing my essay on justice delayed is justice denied I noticed that my friends had included cases in them except for me. Im not comparing but I have noticed that others are more aware of the cases going on except for me. It kind of made me feel stupid but ik realization is the first step to learning them.  The problem I now face is how am I supposed to do this.. how must I deepen my gk and have more case knowledge. What I worry about is how will I make time for this.  The step to this is to watch news and be aware of what's going on. 15minutes daily for this would be beneficial for me.  The issue regarding time is to just ignore my laziness and get to it at times when I dont feel like studying or doing anything. The free time in classes breaks I can easily use that time to learn about this. 
Read more

30/1/26

I slept at 12am half asleep already by 11 on the desk woke up at 4am energized myself with exercises I prayed and not knowing what to stduy and being half asleep I went to sleep again at 6am until 7:15 for breakfast. Classes ended by 1pm today. I decided to meet my school friend whilst buying myself perfume. It was nice it felt like a long time I saw her and it was.  I had a bad hair and skin day today. I am already very conscious about my acne and today it seemed all the more worse altogether. I felt depressed throughout the day. Came home I made some tea for my father we had jackfruit I did some work and im totally tired now. All I want to do rn is scroll through instagram and do nothing.  That's all for today.. Goodnight 
Read more